Helpful Tips
Human eyes very rarely see vibrations, most of the time it is just a feeling. As you develop so will your senses.
Vibrations rise and fall; with high vibrations you can reach a more developed spirit. Low vibrations don’t give as good evidence, like higher vibrations. When vibrations start to drop you should stop what you are doing or your work will be affected.
If you use a house with a high vibration someone coming into the house working on a lower vibration will not be able to work and will seem very vague, especially if others are working on a high vibration. If someone goes into a place where they work on a low vibration and you are working on a high vibration, you may not be able to work or it will not be to a suitable standard, or a standard that you are used to working on.
Male or female
Meditation
detrimental to yourself and your environment.
Some people will drain your energy; bring in lower vibrations cause bad atmospheres. This is most important when you first start out, as you will not have learned control.
If you meditate with someone new they can:-
drain all your energy (vampires) and you don’t know how to stop them, which leaves you tired and vulnerable.
bring in lower vibrations and you don’t know how to get rid of them.
bring in misery and depression and you don’t know how to cleanse your house.
block you, if they are more experienced and jealous.
These are just a few of the reasons why to be careful.
Seeing Spirit
Clairvoyance
Everyone has
their own way of working and translating the messages from Spirit and you will
have to find your own, there are guide lines to start off with but these will
change as you develop e.g.
Blue is a healing colour, green for learning, purple for spirit, a butterfly is spiritual:
As you develop you will realise they are always different. You may pick on someone else’s translations but this is not always advisable e.g. an egg being fried means the arrival of a new baby; to someone else it could mean what they had for breakfast.
Don’t try to run before you can walk. This comes through practice.
Development
We never stop developing; everyone goes at his or her own rate. Most of the time you will not see any improvement but it is happening.
General
Rather than talking with nothing to say, keep quiet, it looks better and doesn’t give the impression you are making it up.
Don’t add things on, better to admit you have nothing; this will give you more credibility. When you have no more or can’t get a link, this does happen, let it go.
Don’t try to make anything fit, it will seem like you are trying too hard and look like you are making things up, e.g. someone from spirit’s first name is Betty, they say that they know a Beverly, stick to what you were told, don’t agree to make your message sound better.
If someone can’t take the message say ‘I will leave it with you, you might remember later.’
Don’t ask questions, it makes you look like you are fishing for information and you loose credibility.
When you want confirmation try saying ‘Do you understand’ or ‘Does this make sense’, etc instead.
Always stick to what you believe, no two people work in the same way, you have to find the best way for yourself, trying to copy others makes you look clumsy like you don’t know your own mind.
More about clairvoyance
Ask the person to come forward, male or female, then proof for the person you are giving the reading to, why they have come forward (there is always a reason). What do they want to say, or any advice they want to give, then something to finish off. In time it will be instinct but to start off ask these five questions; who, proof, why, advice and finish.
Spirit don’t come through without a reason e.g. if someone had bad legs before they passed, then someone on the material has problems with legs. Someone who passed with a head condition, someone is having headaches.
Always give a reason why they have come through, they will use anything and everything e.g. Roses could be flowers, the colour, the chocolates, the month the flower blooms as an anniversary or all of the above.
Diagnosis
You are not a doctor so do not diagnose people, tell them the pains you are feeling and if you feel strongly about the ailment send them to a doctor. Also remember the pains could be from Spirit.
Advice
You are not a councillor so you can listen to peoples problems and sympathise with them but do not give them advice, you can give them more than one option or a different way to look at the problem, if you feel strongly enough about the situation send them to a professional. The reason you don't give advice is because it will always come back on you e.g. someone is having problems with their relationship, if you tell them to leave their partner if it goes wrong they come back and say, 'but you told me'. (Sound familiar).
An easy way around this is to give them more than one bit of advice e.g. someone is having problems with their relationship - (advice) 'you can go and things might get better but only leave if you feel it is right for you' and also tell then, 'if you stay things might get better if you speak to the person first'. They come back and say 'you told me ?' then you can reply, 'No, I told you what could happen if you stayed and what could happen if you left.
(I hope I have explained this point properly, if not contact me, it is a very important piece of information and could save a lot of trouble.)
I have found out that you can be prosecuted if you tell someone to leave their partner.
Subjective and objective
Subjective is inside the head with out the physical e.g. ears, eyes etc.
Objective is outside the head and the information seems to come from the atmosphere and seems to come through the physical e.g. ears, eyes etc.
Both subjective and objective are picked up by the psychic and not by everyone, for everyone to have the same experience at the same time would be 'Physical Mediumship'.
Some little bits and pieces, they may come in helpful.
These are only guide lines.