Responsibility

This is very important especially if you are truly working for Spirit.  If you are genuine in your Spirit work you will have a true need not to hurt another soul.

I am not saying we are all perfect, far from it and if we were perfect we wouldn’t be here but we do try not to deliberately hurt another soul.

I believe responsibility is just common sense.

• Don’t tell anyone anything you wouldn’t like to hear yourself.
• Never predict a death (that person might have a heart attack worrying about what you have told them).
• Never just come out with ‘A child who was abused’ or ‘you tried to kill yourself’, especially in a public meeting. Re phrase it e.g. ‘someone who had a bad childhood?’ or ‘someone has been having silly thoughts’.  Be tactful some souls are very fragile. Think before you speak.
• Try to be uplifting. If something unpleasant comes up don’t avoid it just try to give them something good that may come out of it or tell them how to avoid the situation.
• We do not predict the future because everyone has free choice.
• If you don’t get anything admit it, there is nothing wrong with this, it happens, just be honest.
• If you don't understand what you are getting, say what you see, it is for the sitter to understand the message.
• Never tell anyone else what you get in a reading, it is the sitters personal business.
• Don't get too personal in public situations e.g. churches, or groups.
• If you get personal always tell the sitter, then they can decide if they want you to carry on, especially in public situations or agree to speak to them after the demonstration.
• You can be prosecuted if you tell someone to leave their partner.
• Don't link into someone unless they have asked because it is an invasion on their privacy.  If in a Spiritualist Church everyone knows they can get a reading on a bus they have not agreed.
• We can lie to other people, we can lie to ourselves but we can never lie to spirit.

I will think of more things to add on but at the moment they are not coming to me, if you can think of anything I have missed and you feel is important let me know and I will add it on.

Update

Men have to be more careful when healing due to the fact it may be taken the wrong way if it is a female they are healing at the time.  To avoid any situations you can ask them to put their hand over their chest area or stomach and ask if it is alright to put your hand over the top of theirs, this can avoid any unpleasantness.

S.N.U. recently changed the way they work, now they do not kneel in front of the person if they are healing the legs, they sit at the side of the person and place hands on them that this, this avoids any unpleasant situations, such as seeing up a woman's skirt.